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Miracle Matches
Don’t you just love when seemingly coincidental, win-win matches happen? Recently, someone I knew was downsizing from a six-bedroom house to a three-bedroom house with a whole lot of extra, unwanted furniture and household items. She happen to be at my house and thought to offer my next-door neighbor her basically, brand-new bed for their…
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I Know You’re Not Crazy!
Before I could say that, I had to make sure I wasn’t either, otherwise, how would I know. I’m talking about signs from your loved ones from the other side. If I weren’t so convinced that they are still with us, in some form, or frequency, or dimension, I couldn’t be so sure of myself…or…
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Preplanning
Over the decades, anytime my huband and I had house problems, he would most often fix them. He had a gazillion tools and a whole lot of knowledge and skill from all his part time jobs growing up. His father was a plumber, and his father’s friends, other men of various trades, all hired him…
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Happy Anniversary Signs
/ I tried to stay happy on what would have been our 54th wedding anniversary, as a gift to my late husband. I know he watches over me, and I know in my heart he would not want me spending the day crying about missing him since he passed last year. I planned a day…
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New Puppy Joy!
Today I saw that my neighbor got a new puppy and shared the sweet little thing with me on a quick visit. I fell in love! I have always felt dogs were put on this earth to simply please us with their unconditional love when treated well. And puppies just light up our hearts. After…
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Technology and Aging
I didn’t grow up with a computer so I have no natural instincts like the kids do today. At midlife, I took many courses to learn all the current programming languages so I could be a programmer. In the end, I stayed with my career in education because it had more meaning to me than…
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We Made Our Little Plan
I stopped posting here for a bit in order to write my book. It was quite cathartic as I shared the experiences of connecting with my late husband during my first year of widowhood. And as much as I know others may find my story quite unique to say the least, my biggest hope is…
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When You Look for Love
This past Valentine’s Day I was afraid I’d have a really bad day missing my husband. It was my second Valentine’s Day since he passed, and the first one, after sharing fifty-four others, was very hard. While I was at the grocery store the day before, I saw all the Valentine bouquets on display and…
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My Glass-Half-Full Dream
I’ve been reading a lot of inspirational books recently as a way of lessening my grief. I do feel I’m turning the corner and have started focusing more on the positive instead of my loss. Yesterday I read that we should celebrate that our loved ones have successfully completed their lifetimes… that their physical end…
TALES FROM THE BOBBI LAMA
SPIRITUAL LESSONS IN LIFE
TALES FROM THE BOBBI LAMA 