Tag: grief
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A Year and a Half Today
I hope someday I won’t still be tallying time…time he’s been gone and how long since we… (fill in the blank.) I know the grief from losing my “54-year person” has had some lessening recently, but the pity parties still happen…just less intense, for shorter periods of time, and less often…thank goodness. Yes, I’ll always…
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Chance and Readiness
Louis Pasteur once said, “Chance favors the prepared mind.” My late husband used to repeat that quote to all of his students to encourage them to educate themselves so that they’d be ready if lucky opportunities arrived. I have also embraced that thought completely, and I have included it in my book about him and…
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My Late Husband Delivered
For the last few months, I’ve been writing a book about receiving signs from my late husband, and all about the synchronicities that validate them. I was also taking a writing course which left me very overwhelmed by the process of getting published. The thought of having to get an agent, write a forty-page proposal…
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Still My Protector
One time, during a reading with a medium, she told me that my late husband came through and wanted me to look for hawks. He wanted me to know they were a symbol of him looking out for me and protecting me. I found that fascinating and later googled hawk symbolism. It said, “Hawks represent…
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I Know You’re Not Crazy!
Before I could say that, I had to make sure I wasn’t either, otherwise, how would I know. I’m talking about signs from your loved ones from the other side. If I weren’t so convinced that they are still with us, in some form, or frequency, or dimension, I couldn’t be so sure of myself…or…
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Happy Anniversary Signs
/ I tried to stay happy on what would have been our 54th wedding anniversary, as a gift to my late husband. I know he watches over me, and I know in my heart he would not want me spending the day crying about missing him since he passed last year. I planned a day…
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New Puppy Joy!
Today I saw that my neighbor got a new puppy and shared the sweet little thing with me on a quick visit. I fell in love! I have always felt dogs were put on this earth to simply please us with their unconditional love when treated well. And puppies just light up our hearts. After…
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When You Look for Love
This past Valentine’s Day I was afraid I’d have a really bad day missing my husband. It was my second Valentine’s Day since he passed, and the first one, after sharing fifty-four others, was very hard. While I was at the grocery store the day before, I saw all the Valentine bouquets on display and…
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My Glass-Half-Full Dream
I’ve been reading a lot of inspirational books recently as a way of lessening my grief. I do feel I’m turning the corner and have started focusing more on the positive instead of my loss. Yesterday I read that we should celebrate that our loved ones have successfully completed their lifetimes… that their physical end…
TALES FROM THE BOBBI LAMA 