TALES FROM THE BOBBI LAMA

Three years ago today, my husband passed, and I couldn’t imagine living without him. Three years and a lot of tears later, and I’m still here. I still miss him and always will, but my journey was made so much easier by the signs and communications that appear to be from his spirit. In fact today I had a few of those. I had a dear friend move mountains to find pink tulips (my favorite) to have delivered to me where pink tulips are not available in this state, and especially this time of year. (My husband always found them hard to find for our February wedding anniversaries, too.) Her beautiful flowers arrived with a card filled with love and said from her and Jack explaining how important she felt it was to get them to me today. I was beyond thrilled!

As the day unfolded, several other friends called to see how I was doing, feeling compelled out of nowhere. Each one explained how they just suddenly had a very strong feeling to connect with me. Then, at the end of the day, one of my daughters attempted to call her husband on her way home from a long day, but the car phone called me. There is absolutely no explanation for that since the voice commands have two different phrases for us…and no words sound alike. It felt like Jack’s energy was bringing me to the minds of those I love so they’d think of me and call. He always knew how much joy I felt when chatting with my close friends and family. Today, instead of remembering the sadness I felt on the anniversary of his transition, I truly enjoyed connecting with so many people remembering happy times we all had together.

To make it easier on these anniversaries, I deliberately planned the launching of my book about him for December 12th last year making it on the same date he passed so I could be happy celebrating the aniversary of “our” book. It was about his efforts in Spirit to let me know he wasn’t gone (You Don’t Know Jack!: How Antics from My Late Husband’s Spirit Give Undeniable Evidence of Afterlife). That way I could connect the two events with a combined gratitude for his life with me for 54 years as well as his continued love from the otherside. And it worked. I felt the joy of our continuing mission to share the message that we don’t die. And today I felt that joy more than grief… with his help.